“If a man entices a virgin who is not betrothed, and lies with her, he shall surely pay the bride-price for her to be his wife” (Ex. 22:16).
The laws set before us in this passage reveal the hatred God has for immorality. By their just punishments and manner of restitution, we see what high value God places on chastity, purity, faithfulness, and concern for the widow, the orphan, and the indigent. As is evident from these statutes, there is a standard of right behavior for every relationship in society, and each of these laws is reflective of godly values. Therefore, we should examine our own culture in light of these specific laws to see how far we have come from the principles set forth in these statutes from the Lord. We say principles, for while it may be debated whether or not these laws apply to cultures other than Israel, we cannot deny the moral code expressed within these laws. As we examine the principles set forth here, we should not consider them irrelevant to us, but we should learn from them and grieve over the loss of justice and of moral integrity in our own lives.
In the first verses, we see how God condemns fornication. God holds marriage in high esteem, as well as the father’s authority over a daughter. But what of today? What if a man and a woman sleep together out of wedlock? Do we even blush at such an activity, much less condemn it? Sadly, it has become a widely accepted practice (an understatement indeed), and so have sorcery, bestiality, idolatry and oppression, especially of the poor. Psychic networks abound, and behavior of the most unimaginable sorts titillates the viewers of television and movies and Internet streaming on a daily basis. Idolatry and oppression run rampant in our society under the banner of “let freedom reign.” But such “freedom” was never meant to reign in human society. Only God reigns, and when men and women reject His kingship, they enslave themselves to their own desires. The result is a crumbling of both society and ourselves.
So when we read passages such as the one before us, no matter our views on civic law, let us not pass by only thinking, “Things sure were harsh in Israel.” Let us see God’s holiness reflected in such laws and consider our own lives and the society in which we live. Have we moved so far away from a God-centered understanding of life and duty that we barely flinch when we see or read about violations of such basic moral principles? May we stir ourselves from such apathy and develop a renewed passion for God’s holy law.
Consider entertainment and social media content for a moment. How are God’s moral laws, as taught in the passage before us, flagrantly violated in today’s society? Look at each law carefully and think seriously about your own life, the life of your church, and of your society. Pray that each will conform to God’s law.